| Have ever spared a ZombieThought for TheShapeOfThings? How they attract us, lure us arouse us? How shape of Men&Women maketh us love everything attached to their body? Err...Love? Not exactly so. I have this DarkSecret desire to actually analyse more than love the HumanBody and understand the degree of fanaticism each exhibit in bed due to our "ShapeOfThings". Lovemakin' is but a documentation,not of a Relatiotionship but of SellotapedAudaciousAnalyticalInstinct which has nothing to do with DutiesDinnerdatesBabies,et al. The understanding of the HumanShapes is what Sex is all about. And it is NOT in the paradigm of Love. Well, according to me. How many of us Think of BreastsButtocksGenitila as SkilledArtfulCreations? Yes,I guessed as many. Now, how many of us really observe the BeautyOf"SuchThings" while naked, perfecting our analysis? How many of us would want to just SmellSkin of the partner and think of ways to preserve it? Many would arouse laughter. ThePerfume&ShapeOfHumanThings is what I want to Sense. Lot remains unexplained. I am still trying to uncover. |
Tuesday, October 30, 2007
Sex?What'sThat?
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a viagra for thoughts:
the human male and female bodies are the most beautiful creations of god. Sex is all about attraction starting with the body attraction (dont give me all taht shit about emotions) and then moves onto emotions..i agree that during lovemaking it is the body's beauty that would/did entice me than just the process that is sex itself..
I loved this post of urs nimisha.. came as a pleasant shock right up to mah veins
i differ with ROHIT...
there is a major difference between SEX and LOVEMAKING.
the latter is non-existent.
yes,smelling the skin,hearing the heart beat,analysing and admiring the human form [here,id like 2 add tht i feel the female form is way more erotic than d male form n this has nothn 2 do with me being straight] and evrythng does sound very enticing and erotic but do u really do it whn we DO IT???
:D This is indeed a very controversial topic that You have raised. Not deliberately I am sure, but one that is going to attract a lot of attention...and people I don't think will really refrain themselves from commenting on this one.
Every Man has His own way. Every Man chooses His own way. Philosophies are made and adopted. The field is not limited to certain sets and standards, and every Man can develop His or Her own. In fact, that is what they do, be it consciously or unconsciously.
Generalization is a problem which plagues Art tremendously, and mostly We find Ourselves criticizing works of Art according to Our own Tastes, Preferences and Experiences. "I" Think We need to avoid that approach if Spiritual Enlightenment is what We seek, instead of passing off Our own opinions as the Eternal Truths. For if I am to believe in the greater cause of Human development, I guess Community matters more than the Individual.
It is neither about Physicality, nor about Emotions. One can't exist without the Other. Few Years down the line, We won't be Looking for just Sex or just a Shoulder to Cry upon, or just a Face in front of which We can keep rambling. Beauty it is - Yes. And We can only fully Love and be fully Loved when Things just keep happening - and We don't really have to Try hard for Them. We all have different approaches towards Life - and Yes, Sex/Lovemaking is[are] a part of it. For some, it may boil down to the same thing, but as far as My Knowledge goes[I am not generalizing] - You can go to a Brothel, pay a few Bucks and get Sex - but not Love. For they who say there's no difference between Love Making and Sex - :D - I would like to ask them to go to a brothel and get married to a Sex-Worker - without getting to know Her ofcourse, otherwise anybody might fall in Love with Her! By saying this, I am not looking down upon the Sex-Workers, but I am just leaving You people with an option -
A] Get married to a person You just Fucked for the heck of it, without getting/trying to Know Her at all
B] Make Love to a Person You Trust, and Feel at ease with. Sharing Homes, however, come much later.
If I was to believe that Sex is what is on everybody's Mind,
then I would also have to believe that each and every person who is Single, whenever He/She meets someone He/She previously didn't Know...or, to make matters easier, if that person starts even remotely liking the person He/She's just met, then would the sole criterion for judging that person be trying to imagine how Good He/She would be in Bed? :D People would then be giving preference to just their sexual desires, and there would be nothing called Friendship between the opposite sexes. Or is it that that is what the World has come down to? Whenever one befriends someone who is a member of the Other Sex, He/She keeps Imagining when He/She would get to lay Him/Her? I refuse to believe that.
Art is about capturing the important things in Life. Art is definitely Personal, but Greater Art is what reaches out Personally at an Universal Level. This might just be a short paragraph, this scrap of Yours Nimisha, but I am Glad it is one which raises extremely important questions, and even if it by chance does not fully succeed in coming up with absolutely correct answers, it makes a very honest attempt to do so.
I might also say that I don't have anything personal against the ones who commented before Me, and the ones who are going to comment later. But I believe this is a Public Forum and all of Us, as Individuals still in their early days[none of Us are know-alls I hope] trying to Learn from Life, and Trying different Things out, have the rights to expressing Ourselves. The ultimate goal, I hope is trying to get to know the Truth, and come what may, We will go to any extent to get there.
There's an Old saying after all - "Beauty Lies in the Eyes of The Beholder". Each Man for Himself. I would like to square off with that one, and once again I would like to remind Everyone, including Myself, Physical Curiousity will always be there during the earlier stages of Our Life. When We will be nearing middle age, most of Us would perhaps be looking for Mental and Emotional support more than "Sex". But it's really the culmination of the two that provides Us with Peace, Harmony and Happiness.
To evryone commenting on my post :
When i was still pressing the keypad buttons trying to assort my thoughts desperately seeking a vent i knew t would attract attention. But i don't want to rub people the wrong way and feel that the post is erotic. I cared a damn about eroticism while i was developing the scrap. My only focus was the HumanBody and how we can make Love HAPPEN without having Sex. How we can conjure Art witout the Penetration. I don't care if it's Love or Lust. Even while Lusting a Body you see the BodyShapes right before you. Can't we for once forget the word sex and all the paraphernalia attached and just concentrate on IMBIBING in all the elements of the Body into our Soul... the smell,the gooseflesh, the moles, the language of the eyes, the energy,the ... the sheer BEAUTY of the body for godsake. Forget a word named Sex exists. It's not about playfully fondling the body, it's about envisioning the body with the Nose. Try using your other senses.
@Zoink:
That is precisely what I meant!
the aesthetic is also a borderline on the freedom to seek anything. mostly we suffer from a compulsive need for a purpose. the need to feel driven to an end.
we have the horizon of all our senses to take in the contours of flesh - yet we have the purposes of a lover, an abuser, a doctor to limit us.
the shapes the visions the colors the smells the tastes. its what you think when you touch, what you conjure (or what conjures you) when you drink in what you see.
- www.whitenights.wordpress.com
Admirable post from Antoreep. I am impressed. Antoreep here has raised two key issues- Truth & Beauty. My question is: How do we connect the two? Are they contradictory? Are they two sides of the same coin? What are they? Also if there is no fixed way to view things, how on earth can we reach towards a universal view of things? These are questions I would like people to think about.As for Nimisha,A thought provoking piece. Keep it up!
"Lovemakin' is but a documentation,not of a Relatiotionship but of SellotapedAudaciousAnalyticalInstinct"
- does the author really buy this when she spells "lovemaking" and not "having sex"!!!
I wonder
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